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Custody and support

When I read the post

When I read the post, I am left confused as to why anyone would spout such near vulgar garbage toward someone. There have been times that I have played the devil’s advocate just to bring about serious discussion and I played stupid about the issues by stating politically correct rhetoric. But, I never included another personally to pull off such a farce. I certainly hope that Mr. Sims attempted to do the same although it did sound a bit more like an attack rather than poking fun using sarcasm to show how blatantly ignorant the familiarity platform is designed.

In any case, there are substantial areas of abuse by the system pointed out (although pointed out in irregular ways) and I think it gives us something to talk about. Otherwise, there is no “rest of the story”. Here is where truth comes out and as the saying goes, “the truth hurts”.

The fact that such information amounts to gigabytes, a better means to communicate is to break it into several discussions to let them take their own course. I’ll start by opening a thread called “the truth hurts” and quote statements followed by responses.

Custody and support

Oh, that’s beautiful

Dear Sir,

Oh, that’s beautiful. I so hoped someone would respond with the typical sarcastic rhetoric. Prime example of someone, who hasn’t had the pleasure of sampling Texas Justice.

If the courts are so UNDERSTANDING, why are there so many, and I mean many, fathers having to find places like this to come and vent or ask for help?
I especially feel the love of our judicious court system.

Typical you are, to make such a presumption, that because someone is going to be arrested for non-payment of child support, it must mean they are not paying, or downgrading jobs, or that there is another part to the story. You exhibit the paranoid characteristics that reeks in our courtrooms today.

You sir have just made every father that reads the postings, feel right at home. This is how we are typically treated. We are instantly accused of lying, not caring, and anti-social values attributed to the immoral decline of our children.

This website is incredible, I haven’t seen so many people pat themselves on the back, or toot their own horn in my entire life.

Just because you have custody of your children I guess the court system doesn’t look too bad to you right now, does it?

By the way, I have retained every paycheck stub from every job I worked. Every job has been a step up in pay. I don’t have an attorney because the blood sucking leach of an ex-wife gets 50% of my paycheck every month. Now, if you want to come down here and defend me for FREE, then you can talk your BS.

I haven’t seen my son for almost ten years because she refuses. She had his name changed, and now she’s trying to adopt him with her new husband, AND I’M STILL PAYING CHILD SUPPORT.

My son means the world to me, so don’t you ever call me or even suggest that I’m a deadbeat dad or that I’m not paying.

Custody and support

I love it when I hear only half the story

I love it when I hear only half the story. No court will put someone in jail for non-payment of child support if the father is paying the child support. There must be some other reason, or “the rest of the story”

Courts typically are only taking 50% of an individuals income if that person is not paying the required or ordered child support.

I am a single custodial father, I have custody of my daughter and I know how important child support is. I don’t get much and I it is not an amount that any court ordered, it is an order that my ex and I agreed on.

I work with fathers full time, specifically I work with fathers who are not compliant with their child support orders. I get orders modified almost daily, through a very understanding court. Understanding because I helped the courts understand the problems.

Now If you had an order and you lost or changed your job, therefore reducing you income, that would cause the courts to take 50%. If you lost your job legitimately or you income was decreased legitimately, you should have no problem getting the courts to modify your order to one that is reasonable. But it you intentionally decreased your income, you should have a hard time getting the courts to modify your child support. This may actually qualify you as a dead beat dad. Someone who is trying to get out of meeting your financial obligation to your children. Bottom line is that if you have done this, you don’t give two shits about the child, you have done this to hurt the ex.

If I am wrong and you are really getting screwed on child support, let me know and I have an organization that might be able to help you out. But make sure you tell me the whole story, I don’t do well with BS.

Keeping the faith in fatherhood