In my political action experience, and working with men who are having troubles with the divorce industry, I have noticed a few things.
First the divorce war usually wears the father out.
Second once the father has won what he has gotten shaking or rattling the cage for the changes that are needed, is a scary thing. In some areas if you rattle the wrong cages of the elected officials hell will seem like a holiday.
Third, we do not see many in the men’s movement except for the walking wounded.
As a marine you would know about going in to combat with a real contingent of back-up and front line soldiers. This is something that the men’s movement is very thin in.